Well I guess she is my ex now. Here is my question though, How big of an ass should i be? I mean where she is working currently i got her the job. She took rent from my credit card for this month and is now telling me i cant stay there. Ohh and she did this all while i still have a picture of her with my penis in her mouth. :doh:

post nekkid pics.


now.


this is the only answer.

Like i said i only have one and she isnt nekkid just giving me head. I am not going to post it that is for another gallery....

no nekkid pics = fail.

Get her fired.

Get her fired.

I want to try but where i work that is not humanly possible. I took off work the other day while still logged in for over an hour and nobody knew about it. There is a chick thats working here that doesnt know how to show up on time, and if she is close then she logs into the computers and goes to sleep until the boss comes in to wake her up and tell her to get to work. They have NEVER fired anyone here.

fuck her friends in her house.

I want to try but where i work that is not humanly possible. I took off work the other day while still logged in for over an hour and nobody knew about it. There is a chick thats working here that doesnt know how to show up on time, and if she is close then she logs into the computers and goes to sleep until the boss comes in to wake her up and tell her to get to work. They have NEVER fired anyone here.
Well, it appears you don't have anything on her. Move onward.

btw How did she "take" rent from your credit card? That doesn't seem legal...

"vengeance is mine, I will repay"

it can be difficult not to want to seek vengeance, but you aren't providing details on where you went wrong (and that's typical)

I went wrong by asking her out 11 months ago. I went wrong by moving in with her to help with bills and to take care of her daughter. I went wrong by not helping out around the house as much while i was/am working 2 jobs. I went wrong by leaving my wallet at the house most days so she could pay bills. I went wrong by well thats about it. She says its over because i am irresponsible since i took off to get a phone after the whole tmobile issue. I thought otherwise.

Well, it appears you don't have anything on her. Move onward.

btw How did she "take" rent from your credit card? That doesn't seem legal...

I left it at the house and she went and did an ATM withdrawl.

I went wrong by moving in with her to help with bills and to take care of her daughter.
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I went wrong by asking her out 11 months ago. I went wrong by moving in with her to help with bills and to take care of her daughter. I went wrong by not helping out around the house as much while i was/am working 2 jobs. I went wrong by leaving my wallet at the house most days so she could pay bills. I went wrong by well thats about it. She says its over because i am irresponsible since i took off to get a phone after the whole tmobile issue. I thought otherwise.
Don't ever date chicks with kids again.

Just get over her and move on.

yeah, I hate kids :(

yeah, I hate kids :(

I have no problem with kids. I really liked her daughter she was easy to get along with and not too spooled.

If you don't like the kids you could always kill them, according to yzf they got a free ticket into heaven. Best to save them the trouble of picking up "sin" some where.

spooled.
Freudian slip? :D



Back to the kids thing. I have a problem when they're not mine. :chicken:

Freudian slip? :D



Back to the kids thing. I have a problem when they're not mine. :chicken:

Forgive me i have slept maybe 10 hours in the last 4 days. Yeah i screwed up. Lots of things that could have changed but in the end i have been expecting it for a couple of months. You could tell she was just letting me stay tell she came up with a reason to call it.

I had the exact same problem last year. Hell, she even got my friends on her side (which I guess sleeping with them helped with that...yeah)

So, what did i do?

1. Called her parents to tell them thanks for letting me sleep with their daughter and that it was nice of her to share her body with my friends, too.

2. She had yet to get a job (spent alot of my money on antiques, though) so I distributed a flyer of her, naked, in the middle of town--offering sex. I included her cell phone number. I doubt very highly she looked for work there.

3. Since everything was in my name, I made calls to cancel the internet, home phone, cable tv, electricity, and---my lease. The last one to take effect one week after I left so that, if she re-activated the other utilities, she'd still have to leave.

4. And my favorite part--The last night I was there(and before she was aware of anything I had done that day), I gathered up the strength and started (untruthfully) begging her to come back. I told her I was sorry and that it was ok that she slept with my friends. I conjoured up fake tears (vicks vapor rub works wonders) and actually convinced her to give me another chance.

Then I laughed at her.

I left, posted everything on my blog, and have since found out that she is living with her parents at 30 years old with no job.

I left, posted everything on my blog

ROFL What are you, 15?

ROFL What are you, 15?

nah I only play one on teh intarwebz

Thanks? but next time I need a sermon-- I'll call a REAL preacher.

I dont know what to do. I mean i dont want to hurt her but she waited till i paid for quite a few of her bills and she knew i was broke till the shit hit the fan. I really just want to make her feel as lost and broke as i am right now.

I dont know what to do. I mean i dont want to hurt her but she waited till i paid for quite a few of her bills and she knew i was broke till the shit hit the fan. I really just want to make her feel as lost and broke as i am right now.

You can't cancel the charges on the credit card?

Well, my advice for you little boys is to inform every female you meet that you turn into psycho, vindictive little pussies once you get your wittle feewings hurt. That way, you won't ever have to worry about these predicaments again, because every chick will want to vomit at the sight of you.

"humble submission" :rofl:

Thanks? but next time I need a sermon-- I'll call a REAL preacher.
WOOT! :bigthumb:

not all women and psycho and manipulating...but many of them are :)

it's part of the curse, the struggle to gain authority and power...but "the man will rule over you anyway" God declares

the feminist movement has been extremely destructive to the family and society as a whole...finding a Christian girl who still believes in humble submission to her husband is edging on damn near impossible these days...

it has become one big mess, and immorality compounds the problems, esp when kids are involved

Fixed :bigthumb:

I dont know what to do. I mean i dont want to hurt her but she waited till i paid for quite a few of her bills and she knew i was broke till the shit hit the fan. I really just want to make her feel as lost and broke as i am right now.
Why? What are you being vindictive over? Is it because you "loved" her or because you feel used? Either way, your actions just don't add up.

If you loved her, and if you were an adult, first you wouldn't want to hurt her and you would admit that you are irresponsible. Posting your personal relationship information in detail on the internet that isn't anyones' business... I could agree that you are irresponsible, among other things.

If it's over feeling that you've been used and she took your money... you did say that YOU moved in with HER... not the opposite. She took you into her home, so obviously you were in more need than she. You said you paid the rent 1 month, did you not normally help pay the rent? If you left your wallet with her to spend however she wished, I don't think her spending your money irresponsibly was an on-going thing... if so.... you're quite a damn dumbass to continue to let it happen.

I guarantee if we heard her side of the story... things would certainly add up... You are childish, and seeing that she's a mother... she probably is more responsible and mature than you. Considering that you have zero integrity + risking your job by leaving for an hour, while clocked in without permission shows that you aren't exactly ready for a serious relationship... because well... you're a kid. Grow up and quit pointing fingers in every other direction...

I'm just mad Tony didn't like my fake story enough to try it out for himself.

That would have ruled.

However, Reverand Hypocrites' rant was worth it.

Well I guess she is my ex now. Here is my question though, How big of an ass should i be? I mean where she is working currently i got her the job. She took rent from my credit card for this month and is now telling me i cant stay there. Ohh and she did this all while i still have a picture of her with my penis in her mouth. :doh:

Always be the bigger person. You never know how many of her friends thought they'd want to fuck you, and when they see you being classy, they might want to get down.

Cancel the CC payment for the rent. And change your PIN, and don't EVER share that shit with another person ever again.

Why? What are you being vindictive over? Is it because you "loved" her or because you feel used? Either way, your actions just don't add up.

If you loved her, and if you were an adult, first you wouldn't want to hurt her and you would admit that you are irresponsible. Posting your personal relationship information in detail on the internet that isn't anyones' business... I could agree that you are irresponsible, among other things.

If it's over feeling that you've been used and she took your money... you did say that YOU moved in with HER... not the opposite. She took you into her home, so obviously you were in more need than she. You said you paid the rent 1 month, did you not normally help pay the rent? If you left your wallet with her to spend however she wished, I don't think her spending your money irresponsibly was an on-going thing... if so.... you're quite a damn dumbass to continue to let it happen.

I guarantee if we heard her side of the story... things would certainly add up... You are childish, and seeing that she's a mother... she probably is more responsible and mature than you. Considering that you have zero integrity + risking your job by leaving for an hour, while clocked in without permission shows that you aren't exactly ready for a serious relationship... because well... you're a kid. Grow up and quit pointing fingers in every other direction...

Not exactly....

Let's look at what we know....

--he moved into her house
--he at least shared in paying the bills
--at one point, she needed a job and he helped her get one

For all we know, when he moved in, she could have been desperate for cash to pay those bills. That is not something hard to picture--it happens a lot these days. So at this point, we dont know who was in more need. She did scam him for money for the bills when she then threw him out, so we at least know that at that point money was on her mind. He also said he was working two jobs, so it does seem that money was an issue for them. And now, he says he is broke--so even working two jobs, money is tight.

To tony--what were you thinking??

You were with this girl 11 months? How long did it take for you to move into her place? If I had to guess, I would say that you were not dating very long when that happened.

Then you say you were expecting this for a couple months?? If so, why would you continue to leave her your wallet? Why wouldnt you at least set some emergency cash aside just in case? Dude, you gotta start thinking about life better than this. Really...why would you just sit there and wait for her to kick you out?

Next, you lived there, so she cannot legally just throw you out on the street. There has to be notice given. Where did you live before moving into her place?

Just find a new place and leave, No need to be an ass just because.


Well maybe you should post the pics.

Cancel the CC payment for the rent. And change your PIN, and don't EVER share that shit with another person ever again.

i don't know if you can get away with that when you're married
but otherwise... that was good advice.

too be honest, it sounds like she played your ass for money and then kicked you out when she got tired of you.

to be honest, it sounds like she played your ass for money and then kicked you out when she got tired of you.
+1

I say good riddance and move on.

Definitely learn from it, salvage what you can financially and move on. There isn't any point in making enemies and burning bridges where there is no necessity.

Definitely learn from it, salvage what you can financially and move on. There isn't any point in making enemies and burning bridges where there is no necessity.

+1

+1

I say good riddance and move on.

So we do work together and i asked for a few things that i had forgot there before i give her the key back. She tells me that i can have them back when i pay my part of the bills coming up this month.

I sent her this in return.

Well the cable bill is billed a month in advance so the bill i let you pay early and over the amount I will not pay anymore bills there. You played me for money and only kept me around because you didnt have enough you want to make this break up a nasty one then so be it. I am going to the bank tomorrow to dispute all charges have fun and keep the router if thats your hearts desire. I was going to keep helping in anyway you needed because i do care about you still. I dont know that i love you anymore but i do care. You gave me "chances" only till you could find a reason to kick me to the curb. If i wanted to be a dick i would move back in and there is nothing you can do about it thanks to nevada law do you really want to play the dirty fight game or do you want to grow up and be friends

For the general info. We were dating for 6 or 7 months when i moved in with her. I had my own place and she just wasnt making enough money to pay rent and electricity on her own much less buy food for her, her mom, and her daughter. I moved in payed a portion of the rent plus her and her moms cell phone bill all of the cable bill and a 100 of the electric bill. She payed for her part of rent then water and half of the groceries(the other half i payed). She got on to me a few weeks ago about being irresponsible because i dont always make my phone payment on time. Keeping in mind that her mom hates me and has threatened my ex a few times with not letting her drive her car if she gave me a ride to work or anywhere. So for the last 5 months that i have been trying to build my car i have been walking. I walk to work(35 Min each way) i walk to get food, I walk to pay her bills, but thats irresponsible. I also payed 90% of the bills ahead of time, which means most of the bills arent do till next month with the exception of rent and electric. I am trying to be nice and play nice but she wants to be a bitch and expects me to take it. By the way i keep saying i only have one picture of her and she is dressed giving me head the picture is on here but in my gallery(but i didnt say that).

Ohh and when i left for that hour to go get my phone i didnt just randomly leave and say f??ck it i am out. I talked to my manager and explained things to him he said i had to go because they needed to be able to call me if there was help needed at work over the weekend. So i left to get a new phone with his permission and with him telling me to do it.

I love that... "We can't afford our food and cell phones... what do we do?"

I'd say stay away from those people... They sound a little too manipulative and you sound a little too naive... bad combination for you.

all im saying is, dont bring up the pictures comment if you aint gonna post any....

see if u can stop payment on the credit card, probably cant...just pay it, and find a better girl..how could you not have seen this coming? people dont just turn into bitches or become vindictive, etc...i have been with same girl for over six years and hell, we were only 15 when we started dating, and never has she shown any symptoms for being a complete whore who uses my credit cards without my knowledge...punch the whore in the face and find a mature woman..


Mark