So lately i have not even given interest in a relationship but i have been feeling the need to get out and socialize

wtf is girls problems now'a'days. Seriously, even when I just smile and a simple hello with a nodding gesture they look at me like they just ate a can of shit.

Applebee hostess. She had an rather amazing physique and strut her ass like no other. So I started small friendly talk with her. Asked if she wanted to hang out after work but she makes excuses: "working double" "working double tomorrow". well apparently she just enjoyed me looking at her.

Chick at the foodcourt. She gave me a look and all I did was smile and say hey, whats up sweetheart. Then she gave me a look like I left bad taste in her mouth.

Adorable girl in the candle store. Man, I just asked if she wanted to hang out after work. Dinner, pool..anything. Pfft, i left with a candle shoved in my ass. I enjoyed it but left with no girl haha. I can't even get numbers.

anybody experience the viciousness of girls lately?

Maybe you're ugly and suck at picking chicks up?

I knew that was coming. anything else?

I almost thought that was the excuse but a simple "hello" gave me bad looks and believe me I'm not ugly.

any self-respecting chick is not going to date some creepy fuck who wanders around malls and asks her out within the first 30 seconds.. is this not obvious to you? :scratch:

not only is it clear to them that you're doing this to multiple chicks, since a "hello" in response is really your only criterion for deciding whether or not a chick is datable, but you're acting like they should be fucking HONORED that you're even speaking to them... I mean, please

You need the DAK method. If Dr DAK does not deliver for our friend here, DAK will fail.

Not attempting to date. Thats why I said IM not interested in a relationship. Just a simple hello does not deserve a disgusting look. And I"m not asking them out after 30 seconds. Only one did I ask if she wanted to go out but I have spoke to her many times before. That being the girl from the candle store.

I was merely just socializing and get some of the nastiest looks from these girls.

Just act like you aren't that interested in them. See how that approach works out for you.

I think Queen is right. Ya might want to change the way you say hi

ark. i told you to stfu

ark. i told you to stfu

Keeping pushing and I'll bury you.

im up too late. i need bed.

lets not wander to deep into the fact that I wanted to date or fuck these girls. Lets just keep in mind that they wont' even have enough respect to carry a light conversation.

acting like I'm not interested in them is what I do if I want to date them. Let them fight for what they want so I know if I'm wasting time or not. but since I just wanted to socialize I attempt to do so but get rejected from even that point.

Keeping pushing and I'll bury you.
bury me how? With cheerleader tits? I dare you.
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bury me how? With cheerleader tits? I dare you.

Half of your shit is so lame, I could let Vert own you for me.

lets not wander to deep into the fact that I wanted to date or fuck these girls. Lets just keep in mind that they wont' even have enough respect to carry a light conversation.

well, they are probably busy

Anyway, getting back on topic, if all you're after is making some female friends then don't act as though you are trying to hit on them. That's probably why they are acting so stand-offish. Either that or they are just bitches.

Eh, some of them maybe which I'm not mad about. Hell they would atleast make it a point they are too busy. There are plenty other thats even just walking past them if they make eye contact I give them a simple hi and keep walking but still get nasty ass faces.

how dare you to laff at my letters.

One thing about me is I dont use "game" try to be smooth or swift.

I will blame other guys.

The ones that constantly HOLLA at girls and use the lamest lines in the book.

heres a thought RB. Shop for your cousin and find a hot chick in a store ,ask her if she can help. Ones that want to help are helpful people and its a good virtue for any friendship.

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heres a thought RB. Shop for your cousin and find a hot chick in a store ,ask her if she can help. Ones that want to help are helpful people and its a good virtue for any friendship.

Right, cuz that's gonna work for this guy. He doesn't even have to social skills to get past "hello". Just make friends with fat chicks, they take whatever they can get.

eh, id appreciate if they would just act a little more mature and not act so ignorant when just trying to carry a conversation. Hell I can honestly admit that applebee girl I wasn't expecting anything out of her. She just walked past me at least 15 times shaking her ass, cleaning tables, looking over at me so I thought I'd talk to her just in case she had intentions. The girl from the food court, we simply made eye contact so I smile and said hi. The girl from the candle store. I've talked to her before. Thought I'd take my chances to see if she just wanted to simple hang out which I made clear.

shush.DAKs here....lets licten in......

You need the DAK method. If Dr DAK does not deliver for our friend here, DAK will fail.

lol, someone rang?

The problem here is that you're coming across just as Queen said. Going about initiating a conversation just as any other person would is something a reasonably attractive girl has gone through many times over with guys in your position. First impressions are everything, and if you're hitting things off with just a "hello, my name is" then I can guarantee you won't get very far outside of small talk.

"Game" isn't all about being smooth, it's about being confident and engaging. Make yourself seem worth hanging out with, and you'll find girls will go out of their way to set up something, even IF they're busy. Not saying you have a 100% chance with the right technique, since some bitches just be plain crazy, but you really ought to re-think your methods.

*pages $100T2*

Try a bar / club before ?

Your last line explains it all Dak. They are just plain crazy.

But keep in mind this goes beyond even just trying to hang out with them.

I expressed above those few in short detail but I also mentioned that even just saying hello to a girl as we cross paths, they make ignorant faces as if I hit on them.

If I actually wanted a girl I know the ways to do it. Ive had plenty so thats not an issue. Going to a bar or club is easy especially when everybody has been drinking.

bar/clubs are cliche pick-up areas... If he's looking for nothing more then a quick fuck, then by all means he should try his hand there... Though most girls worth any time at all will be on the alert moreso at these locations for guys trying to hit on them...

The best finds are out in the field: Grocery store, bookstore (my fav), coffee shop are all far better choices for working on social skills, whereas hanging out in the other two areas are more for when you're trying to get physical with a girl (club) or get her loose enough to come back to your pad for a shag (bar)

But keep in mind this goes beyond even just trying to hang out with them.

I expressed above those few in short detail but I also mentioned that even just saying hello to a girl as we cross paths, they make ignorant faces as if I hit on them.

And I quote:

hey, whats up sweetheart. Then she gave me a look like I left bad taste in her mouth.

lol, I'm pretty sure the part in bold is what offended her. Sounds like something a guy with Aviators and a 'stauche would say in a bad porn movie.

which in all honestly, im not even trying to pick up any girls. i could care less about sex at this point. i know if I wanted one I go to the bar or club.

but none of this still satisfies the point here.

So nobody has experienced or agrees with the fact that even a polite hello of recognition does not deserve a disgusting gesture in return?

Only one girl have I ever said "hey, whats up sweet heart" because I didnt know her name. I dont call girls "baby, sweet heart" etc.. I save that for when I'm in a relationship.

I've been given the "not interested" blow off many times, but never the "look of disgust". You must have appeared to be coming on really strong from their perspective. I wouldn't let it get you down though, especially because girls make terrible friends anyway.

I'm not down about it. Just seen it a few too many times lately so I thought I'd share. See if maybe its in the water.

Well, to simply touch on your point... Just think: an attractive girl is likely to get TONS of attention from the average joe daily. Eventually, one's patience for thinly veiled come-ons runs short and they get snobbish. It's an anti-jerk defense, really... Unfortunately, you just happened to run up against the defense shield, and the fact that you didn't persist through it probably validated her actions, in her mind.

This again doesn't cover the ones who are just plain nuts/think their shit don't stink. Just the ones that are very judgmental regarding first impressions.

One girl for prime example I can understand why she will never want to see me or speak to me. While waiting in line to pay for some food we made eye contact. Once again, a simple smile and hi while nodding my head. She proceeded with a dirty look so I cursed her out in front of everybody.

assuming the chicks aren't psychotic, it appears that you're coming off as threatening in some way
there ARE ways to begin conversations with me that will get me to respond (though obviously just about anyone is going to be somewhat standoffish during a convo with a complete stranger), but "hi my name is ____ [insert barrage of questions here]" is not the way to go about it

I have now and then, but I usually counter the "anti-jerk defense" with a neg hit comment of some sort to lighten the mood. If her defense isn't parried with a slightly sharp witty comment in return, then I usual go about my way. Not worth the effort...

Well, to simply touch on your point... Just think: an attractive girl is likely to get TONS of attention from the average joe daily. Eventually, one's patience for thinly veiled come-ons runs short and they get snobbish. It's an anti-jerk defense, really... Unfortunately, you just happened to run up against the defense shield, and the fact that you didn't persist through it probably validated her actions, in her mind.

This again doesn't cover the ones who are just plain nuts/think their shit don't stink. Just the ones that are very judgmental regarding first impressions.
i agree with this and always have. it use to be a once in a while occasion but it just comes from every direction this past month. Maybe its just happening her in Florida.

assuming the chicks aren't psychotic, it appears that you're coming off as threatening in some way
there ARE ways to begin conversations with me that will get me to respond (though obviously just about anyone is going to be somewhat standoffish during a convo with a complete stranger), but "hi my name is ____ [insert barrage of questions here]" is not the way to go about it

eh this i know. I carry a strong presence. Confident and bold. I know the intensity is too much for some but jesus cant we still act a little mature about it. Especially when just acknowledging your (spoken in general) pathetic existence?

I dont recall saying I approached a girl with "hi my name is ____" cant see myself ever doing that outside of work. I actually never give my name out come to think of it.

also, standoffish and rude are 2 different things.

I've got a good one. Go up to a girl and say: "Hi, I've got an odd question to ask you, but does my friend look like a drug dealer to you?"

Her reaction will be priceless.

I've got a good one. Go up to a girl and say: "Hi, I've got an odd question to ask you, but does my friend look like a drug dealer to you?"

Her reaction will be priceless.

Yeah, Ill try that one day.

there ARE ways to begin conversations with me that will get me to respond (though obviously just about anyone is going to be somewhat standoffish during a convo with a complete stranger), but "hi my name is ____ [insert barrage of questions here]" is not the way to go about it

Case in point, really. If you want to engage in convo with a girl that's going to last longer then a few moments and end with contact information, you've got to think outside the box. "Hi, my name is..." or glances from afar with a smile and a nod are old school like a mofo. Only insecure guys and jerks use these methods.

Not saying you are one, but that's how you'll be viewed as.

I've got a good one. Go up to a girl and say: "Hi, I've got an odd question to ask you, but does my friend look like a drug dealer to you?"

Her reaction will be priceless.

I've tried something similar to this, and it does work.

You don't need one-liners or smooth talks, you just need a great opener for convo and a relaxed and confident presence

i could agree with that Dak but my nod isnt a nod that says "hey girl whats up" its just something that happens so that she knows I acknowledged her. Hell if I really wanted any of these girls I could be persistent and show them im not your typical meat head.

most are going to assume you're hitting on them, bc 9 times out of 10 (if not more) that is the entire reason a random male is going to begin talking to them. part of your problem is that you're treating this like girls should be flattered that you're even acknowledging them. but trust me, any halfway-decent chick is used to being ogled/checked out in the most obvious way possible/whistled at/hit on, and it is incredibly uncomfortable and not flattering in the least, since most males (particularly ones flat-out staring at chicks) would fuck just about anything that would open its legs for them. am I supposed to feel fucking special bc of this?

I have before when this was just rare event have told a girl "woah woah hey relax, just trying to have harmless conversation" and we proceeded with a quick 5 minute conversation that went fine. But again, thats if I'm persistent.

This recent shit is more like "damn, you're a fuckin bitch"

most are going to assume you're hitting on them, bc 9 times out of 10 (if not more) that is the entire reason a random male is going to begin talking to them. part of your problem is that you're treating this like girls should be flattered that you're even acknowledging them. but trust me, any halfway-decent chick is used to being ogled/checked out in the most obvious way possible/whistled at/hit on, and it is incredibly uncomfortable and not flattering in the least, since most males (particularly ones flat-out staring at chicks) would fuck just about anything that would open its legs for them. am I supposed to feel fucking special bc of this?

This I know. I'm not saying they should feel special because I acknowledge them but they dont have to act like stupid ass little twits after a simple hello.

i could agree with that Dak but my nod isnt a nod that says "hey girl whats up" its just something that happens so that she knows I acknowledged her. Hell if I really wanted any of these girls I could be persistent and show them im not your typical meat head.

Like I said, don't let it get you down. If you do, then there's two possibilities: a) all the girls in the Florida area are bitches or b) you are creepy as fuck. I say just move on, but also recognize that there are some situations that people just don't want to be socialized with. More often then not, people are more civil when expressing this sentiment but obviously there are exceptions.

Another thing is that if I want to hit on a girl and attempt to proceed with anything I do it alone. Usually, extra baggage send of a bad signal. Your "boys" end up fuckin things up for ya and send off the wrong image.

Like I said, don't let it get you down. If you do, then there's two possibilities: a) all the girls in the Florida area are bitches or b) you are creepy as fuck. I say just move on, but also recognize that there are some situations that people just don't want to be socialized with. More often then not, people are more civil when expressing this sentiment but obviously there are exceptions.

believe me these ignorant little girls won't bother me any.

i just dont see how some people can be so ignorant and close minded.

My theory has always been if a girl wants anything to do with me she can approach me but thats not what this is about.

well its 2 in the A.M.
time for sleep -_-

Another thing is that if I want to hit on a girl and attempt to proceed with anything I do it alone. Usually, extra baggage send of a bad signal. Your "boys" end up fuckin things up for ya and send off the wrong image.

Not too sure about that one. Ask a girl what they prefer:

1) you going up to them and trying your best pick-up lines/introductions/whatever

or

2) having one of your buddies say to her, "my friend over here thinks you are cute" and then you acting all embarressed by it.

is that even a question? option 2 was ruled out back in 4th grade, along with "will you go out with me?" notes

any self-respecting chick is not going to date some creepy fuck who wanders around malls and asks her out within the first 30 seconds.. is this not obvious to you? :scratch:

not only is it clear to them that you're doing this to multiple chicks, since a "hello" in response is really your only criterion for deciding whether or not a chick is datable, but you're acting like they should be fucking HONORED that you're even speaking to them... I mean, please

But Queen that is what the movies are telling them works lol

is that even a question? option 2 was ruled out back in 4th grade, along with "will you go out with me?" notes

Well I've just been skewered.

Not that I know anything about girls, but I'm too compelled to give a response so you can try these "lines": Of course, report back.

I have a coupon at ________ with your name on it. (Family Guy)

Someone farted, let's get out of here.

Wait, am I supposed to give advice...

Where were you guys 20 years ago? Good stuff.

girls should have their teeth pulled

a simple hello with a nodding gesture they look at me like they just ate a can of shit.

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