I Think I Have.

The Affair was exciting but now i have left my wife and kids i'm fast getting bored of my new girlfriend.

I am alot older and i am finding it difficult to be interested in what she is.

Has anyone else been in this situation and what did you do?

Nope.

You probably just want what you cant have because you cant have it.

Maybe you should find an older woman with whom you have more in common to cheat on your girlfriend with...?

thanks for the reply but i think you have misunderstood what i wrote

For a momentary thrill, many lives are devastated. Your ex-wife is now left alone, and she will end up in adultery. Your children have no father, and the person they looked to the most in life as a role model becomes a complete loser. Your actions will affect them for a lifetime, and they will likely grow up to follow your same moral oblivion.

You have to wonder what people are thinking when these make these types of incredibly poor decisions in life.

Is it me or has YZF joined the party.

I am pretty sure he understood what you wrote....seems as though you might not be accepting of what you really did.

Once a cheater always a cheater

I am pretty sure he understood what you wrote....seems as though you might not be accepting of what you really did.

Once a cheater always a cheater

thats not true, my grandfather constantly cheated he left his second wife to be with his mistress after his second wife plotted to kill him to get her hands on his money (he had plenty) but he never ever cheated on his mistress they got married and were quiet happy until he died a year and a half ago they had spent 21 years together.

I Think I Have.

The Affair was exciting but now i have left my wife and kids i'm fast getting bored of my new girlfriend.

I am alot older and i am finding it difficult to be interested in what she is.

Has anyone else been in this situation and what did you do?

your a dick!!!!!!!!!!

For a momentary thrill, many lives are devastated. Your ex-wife is now left alone, and she will end up in adultery. Your children have no father, and the person they looked to the most in life as a role model becomes a complete loser. Your actions will affect them for a lifetime, and they will likely grow up to follow your same moral oblivion.

You have to wonder what people are thinking when these make these types of incredibly poor decisions in life.

Hi Mark.......enjoy your dead forum.....

I Think I Have.

The Affair was exciting but now i have left my wife and kids i'm fast getting bored of my new girlfriend.

I am alot older and i am finding it difficult to be interested in what she is.

Has anyone else been in this situation and what did you do?

Have you PIIDB?

^^That's what this forum used to be like. I miss it. :crying:

Back on topic. That's why more people should have open relationships. It's natural to want something different. Most people can suppress the urges, but maybe if you'd talked openly with your wife you could have figured out something else to do.

Is it me or has YZF joined the party.

Yes he has.

Although I do agree completely with what he wrote.

Yes he has.

Although I do agree completely with what he wrote.

*edit* my bad, i was reading the wrong post sorry SOB

*edit* my bad, i was reading the wrong post sorry SOB

Must have missed it- no blood no foul :)

ok...i see alot of judging going on but no advice or if any of you have had experiences of the same or similar nature.

If your that bored why don't you try and get back with the other that is supposing she will have you back and if she does then she a fool....people like you are down right imature and need to wake up to reality...:bigthumb:

lol, forget about man, what is done is done. dont live in the past just learn from it. I've cheated once before never since honestly it was just because the chick i was with was cool but boring in bed. that was years ago. the chick i cheated with was good in bed but no fun to be around any other time.

no my wife wont take me back she is with someone else now. I just cant understand how i have got so bored with the new younger woman so quickly

oh i know, i know, the thrill has worn off idiot, off course it's boring when your not sneaking around behind someones back. oh and then of course your left with the "real" person, actually having to get to know them rather than just having sex for the hell of it

oh i know, i know, the thrill has worn off idiot, off course it's boring when your not sneaking around behind someones back. oh and then of course your left with the "real" person, actually having to get to know them rather than just having sex for the hell of it

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ok...i see alot of judging going on but no advice or if any of you have had experiences of the same or similar nature.

OK, seriously, what do you expect? If you're looking for a bunch of people to say, "Hey, glad you pissed all over your commitment to someone so you could go fuck someone else, and wow, that really sucks that you're bored now", you're barking up the wrong fucking tree.

Here, let me let you in on a secret: The reason why the affair was fun was because it was a risk. The girl was not anything special, it was the chance of getting caught that made it what it was. Suddenly, the "specialness" is gone because the risk is gone.

You fucked up. It's your fault. Tough shit.

Once again, KevDog has spoken the truth.
If we would all listen to him, or have him as a wingman 24x7, we would all be getting laid every night. ( except for no_more_rice )

I'm thinking Big Ray now has a sinking feeling that this might not be the Dr Phil website after all.

dr phil would have told him what a looser he was any ways!!!

Thanks everyone i think you have given me a big ass beating.

dude this is nothing, search the forums and you'll find that others have had it way worse.

Thanks everyone i think you have given me a big ass beating.

If you want a legitimate verbal beat down, say the word, we're more than happy to oblige.

If you want a legitimate verbal beat down, say the word, we're more than happy to oblige.

Agreed.

I only came back out of curiosity, and found this a couple days late.


All I gotta say for the OP is, what the hell do you expect, you live in ESSEX man! It's always been my opinion that you're all useless whores there, and you've just gone and proved it.

oh yeah great moderation of the board, let stupid fucks like that ^^^ in, ha ha ha this place has gotten so bad it's not even a joke anymore