So where is $100T2 at? I have these 2 broads that are confusing the HELL out of me.

I am going home now, I will explain more tomorrow when i come back to work.

Do another line, bra.


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I have a question too... I think i'm stuck in the "just friends" hole.


Foundations of Ladder Theory

Sally: We are just going to be friends, OK?
Harry: Great, friends. It's the best thing...You realize, of course, that we can never be friends.
Sally: Why not?
Harry: What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape, or form - is that men and women can't be friends, because the sex part always gets in the way.
Sally: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry: No, you don't.
Sally: Yes, I do.
Harry: No, you don't.
Sally: Yes, I do.
Harry: You only think you do.
Sally: You're saying I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry: No, what I'm saying is they all want to have sex with you.
Sally: They do not.
Harry: Do too.
Sally: They do not.
Harry: Do too.
Sally: How do you know?
Harry: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.
Sally: So you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive.
Harry: No, you pretty much want to nail them, too.
Sally: What if they don't want to have sex with you?
Harry: Doesn't matter, because the sex thing is already out there, so the friendship is ultimately doomed, and that is the end of the story.


I doubt you're going to reply to me, but it's worth a try :) .

Ok i said i would explain so here goes. I have one girl that i have been talking to for a while now that I am kinda friends with. She is cool and we talk alot during the day when i am at work through AIM. She has been emailing me some pics and things like that and asking strange questions like "if i was single would you date me?" and "Do you really like me?". I know some of you are saying i am an idiot right now for not jumping on it. We went out once and since then she does this shit then kinda backs away for a second before starting up worse then ever hitting on me(or atleast i think she is). So i dont know what to do with that one then there is another one.

This other one i really like and I have been talking to for a few months also. We talk alot and she is a hairstylist, so i see her atleast every 2-3 weeks so she can cut my hair. We get along really well and i hit on her frequently/she hits on me too. But i never can tell if she is just being a girl and flirting/hitting on me because women do that alot or what. So here is the confusing part she told me after the last time she cut my hair that i owed her a special dinner.. Ok so i called her sunday and said lets go out and eat i am hungry. She said I should come out with her she is going to (insert casino with kids stuff in it) with her son and i should really come out and hang out with them. I went had fun with her and her son then went home she told me she had a great time and she couldnt believe how much fun her son had with me and that he REALLY liked hanging out with me so we are going to have to do it again. My question is what the hell do i do to see which one is serious and which one is just wanting to be friends?

I went had fun with her and her son then went home she told me she had a great time and she couldnt believe how much fun her son had with me and that he REALLY liked hanging out with me so we are going to have to do it again. My question is what the hell do i do to see which one is serious and which one is just wanting to be friends?
Ohh... wow.

They're probably both serious, but just take it easy and go out with both of them until you have a better idea of the relationship/intentions and personality. [/SECULAR]

Ohh... wow.

3YO... Yeah i made the comment about her must be trusting me alot as she was introducing me to her son. She said she did trust me but she would let anyone meet him, just wouldnt leave them alone with him if she didnt. During our time out he said that he wanted to go on one of the rides with me and his mommy had to stay where she was(we were at the food court thing eating on the other end). The two of us left for the ride and she stayed put, so in that i dont know what to think...

Ok i said i would explain so here goes. I have one girl that i have been talking to for a while now that I am kinda friends with. She is cool and we talk alot during the day when i am at work through AIM. She has been emailing me some pics and things like that and asking strange questions like "if i was single would you date me?" and "Do you really like me?". I know some of you are saying i am an idiot right now for not jumping on it. We went out once and since then she does this shit then kinda backs away for a second before starting up worse then ever hitting on me(or atleast i think she is). So i dont know what to do with that one then there is another one.

Alright, so this girl is obviously needy and quite elementary with her ways. If you're just looking to squash it and create a stalker, by all means... beat it up. Otherwise, long-term, it's going to get old QUICKLY... and probably not worth wasting the time + effort, or hurting the girls feelings by screwing her and leaving. Toying with people isn't nice.

This other one i really like and I have been talking to for a few months also. We talk alot and she is a hairstylist, so i see her atleast every 2-3 weeks so she can cut my hair. We get along really well and i hit on her frequently/she hits on me too. But i never can tell if she is just being a girl and flirting/hitting on me because women do that alot or what. So here is the confusing part she told me after the last time she cut my hair that i owed her a special dinner.. Ok so i called her sunday and said lets go out and eat i am hungry. She said I should come out with her she is going to (insert casino with kids stuff in it) with her son and i should really come out and hang out with them. I went had fun with her and her son then went home she told me she had a great time and she couldnt believe how much fun her son had with me and that he REALLY liked hanging out with me so we are going to have to do it again. My question is what the hell do i do to see which one is serious and which one is just wanting to be friends?

Pros: Probably more mature. Free haircuts.
Cons: Kid. Probably doesn't plan to step the career up above where she's at. Kid. The everlasting relationship with the father isn't going to go away. She reacts to guys "hitting on" her.... and the kid.

You're probably far different than me... but personally I wouldn't be too interested in either.

I have a question too... I think i'm stuck in the "just friends" hole.

1: Say you're cool with it, and that it doesn't matter.
2: Don't be too nice... don't be captain save a ho... be neutral.
3: Don't talk shit about the boyfriend... treat him as what he is to you--nothing. Don't talk about him period if you can avoid it. If she cries to you about him or his ways, ignore her.
4: Make fun of her commitment... make jokes about her getting married soon, etc.
5: Be exciting and unpredictable... and somewhat mysterious... but always funny and witty. She's probably bored with him if they've been together over 6 months anyway.
6: No matter what happens, keep a smile on your face. Don't involve yourself in drama, and avoid it at all costs.
7: Always make yourself seem unavailable to her. Talk about doing things with other girls, always stay busy as if there isn't TOO MUCH room in your life for her.

More from Zero's how to be a player later... but really... I shouldn't give you this information... If the above isn't you or your personality.... you're doomed with her anyway, but it will make her, and 99% of women want you. Be real about it.. you'll get what comes to you... she's just another bitch, let it slide...

You know i dont think your accurate on the second girl as far as her reacting to people hitting on her and the kid... I mean i have known her for about 3 months now and she wouldnt let me meet him or even bring him out with her. It seems shee really has to trust someone before she will even bring him around in the first place. The second is the one that i would really like to start something with, but the first one keeps sending me uh welll interesting pictures.

The "first one" is a desperate slut.

The 2nd one... didn't bring her kid around at work? Oh no. It's still going to pose problems. At this point I'm not sure if your elevator is operational... I'd say, take what you can get.

The "first one" is a desperate slut.

The 2nd one... didn't bring her kid around at work? Oh no. It's still going to pose problems. At this point I'm not sure if your elevator is operational... I'd say, take what you can get.

Sorry i wasnt more clear on the second one. We have "hung out" outside of her work such as lunch/dinner/movie that kind of thing.

1: Say you're cool with it, and that it doesn't matter.
2: Don't be too nice... don't be captain save a ho... be neutral.
3: Don't talk shit about the boyfriend... treat him as what he is to you--nothing. Don't talk about him period if you can avoid it. If she cries to you about him or his ways, ignore her.
4: Make fun of her commitment... make jokes about her getting married soon, etc.
5: Be exciting and unpredictable... and somewhat mysterious... but always funny and witty. She's probably bored with him if they've been together over 6 months anyway.
6: No matter what happens, keep a smile on your face. Don't involve yourself in drama, and avoid it at all costs.
7: Always make yourself seem unavailable to her. Talk about doing things with other girls, always stay busy as if there isn't TOO MUCH room in your life for her.

More from Zero's how to be a player later... but really... I shouldn't give you this information... If the above isn't you or your personality.... you're doomed with her anyway, but it will make her, and 99% of women want you. Be real about it.. you'll get what comes to you... she's just another bitch, let it slide...

1: I didn't ask her out or anything like that.
2: Doesn't really fit my situation
3: She's a virgin and she doesn't have a bf
4: ?
5: Done... No prob with the first part. 2nd part, she doesn't have a bf.
6: si
7: :rofl: sure, why not

I think we're on a different track, zero.

1: I didn't ask her out or anything like that.
2: Doesn't really fit my situation
3: She's a virgin and she doesn't have a bf
4: ?
5: Done... No prob with the first part. 2nd part, she doesn't have a bf.
6: si
7: :rofl: sure, why not

I think we're on a different track, zero.

Yeah zero is trying to keep getting ass and your trying to get it for the first time. Same thing really.

:rofl: Dick

:rofl: Dick

Expect more since you get me banned asshole.

AWhhh don't worry. You'll be unbanned after tomorrow.

AWhhh don't worry. You'll be unbanned after tomorrow.

Hopefully the IP thing goes with it.

2.. even if she is using you as a temporary father for her kid, it's better than a clingy whore with no self-esteem

2.. even if she is using you as a temporary father for her kid, it's better than a clingy whore with no self-esteem

Hmm... Ok are you saying i should hit on 2 more or you think option 2 is really interested in me? Confused.

Hmm... Ok are you saying i should hit on 2 more or you think option 2 is really interested in me? Confused.

Whatever doesn't involve dealing with whore #1
I'm assuming that #2 meant everything she said, so obviously she's interested in you to some extent

lol ok to make it funnier. The "whore" number 1 has told me on a few occasions that she ..... well that L word i wont say.

Uhh... Yeah. WAnna post pics?

What pics?

Broo.... What do you think?!

Broo.... What do you think?!

I think you have a PM?!?

Now why would you only have teh nudes or butt/boobie shots?

Anyways...

http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h229/devilspalm/ICAME.jpg

Now why would you only have teh nudes or butt/boobie shots?

Anyways...

http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h229/devilspalm/ICAME.jpg

Huh? No the clothed boobies and thong shot were the only ones i am showing you(cant let the kids look at porn). She sent me some more, well lets just say interesting pictures.

Slootz.

Well I am going home. Hopefully $100T2 and Preludedude well lend their advise and knowledge in this thread tomorrow.

Do you shave your happy trail?

Uh no but i am not sure what that has to do with this thread...

Girl 1. Havent heard much from her today but I am sorry and I will i promise... Not sure what the hell is wrong with her today.

Girl 2. She started text messaging me the minute i got into work asking questions about what i did last night(i invited her out but she couldnt go because she had already planned on going shopping for groceries). After that we kept texting through the day. I have to say the more i talk to this one the more i like her.

wait? What's going on? Having girl problems?

wait? What's going on? Having girl problems?

Reading. Give it a try.

That would require me looking for your earlier post. Cliff notes?

That would require me looking for your earlier post. Cliff notes?

Hitting on one girl who is sending me interesting photos but seems kind of standoffish when it comes to anything else. Girl 2 who i thought i didnt have a chance with is suddenly flirting with me more and now inviting me to hang out with her and her son.... There is a little more detail on page 1 or 2 but thats the jist of it.

#1 is a tease. Don't bother.
Don't date #2. She has a kid.

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#1 is a tease. Don't bother.
Don't date #2. She has a kid.

/thread

I have dated a few with kids before and learned the warning signs. This ones is the opposite of every stupid bitch i have met that had a kid trying to trap someone, etc. Against your wishes i think i am going to try anyway. Well unless preludedude and $100t2 have some advice i am missing here.

Stay away from single moms. What the hell am I saying? You won't listen to me anyways. You have to fall on your face every time and learn it the hard way.

Oh and by the way, her having a kid is a warning sign genius. :D

Oh and by the way, her having a kid is a warning sign genius. :D

If thats always true why are you with that girl you knocked up?

It's my kid and my chick is wonderful. Do I have to draw you a diagram?

Oh It's time to go. Good night.

It's my kid and my chick is wonderful. Do I have to draw you a diagram?

Oh It's time to go. Good night.

So are these 2 thats the only reason i am showing any interest in them. But hey its nothing serious yet and time will tell if anything happens. Just looking for advise here.