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BATMAN 10-05-2005, 03:37 PM HOW TO CONCEIVE A BOY:
Determining when you ovulate is vital when you are learning how to conceive a boy. You should have sex as early as 24 hours before ovulation to no more than 12 hours past ovulation in order to increase your chances of conceiving a boy. Having sex to far in advance to ovulation will dramatically decrease your chances of conceiving a boy. The timing of intercourse in relation to ovulation is a vital factor in increasing your chances of having a boy.
3 specific ways in which to do this.
1) Charting Cervical Mucus
With this method of determining when you ovulate, you access your cervical mucus on a daily basis. Right before you ovulate, your cervical mucus should be very watery and very elastic. It's consistency should be that of raw egg white. Charting for more than a month before you attempt to conceive a boy is recommended so you can be CERTAIN that you are ovulating on a specific day.
2) Basal Body Temperature (BBT) Charting
For gals, use your BBT charting a long with charting your cervical mucus in order to gain as much information in order to pinpoint when exactly you are ovulating.
In order to chart your basal body temperature ( BBT ) you will need to purchase a basal thermometer. Before you get up each morning, you will take your temperature before you do ANYTHING. Any activity can lead to innacurate temperature readings. At the time of ovulation, you will see a spike in your temperature which will indicate that you have already ovulated. Considering that you need to have sex as close to ovulation as possible in order to increase your chances of having a boy, you will need to chart at least two months before you can make good use of the information that your charting reveals.
Frequency and Timing of Intercourse:
Shettles says in order to increase the chances of having a boy, you should have sex now earlier than 24 hours before ovulation to 12 hours after ovulation.
Intercourse closer to ovulation the faster but less robust Y (boy) sperm. The cervical mucus present at ovulation is less acidic and "slippery" enough to help the Y (boy) sperm reach the egg more quickly.
Sexual Position:
If you are trying to conceive a boy, deep penetration from your partner, preferably with the "doggy style" position, will deposit the sperm closer to the cervix giving the more aggressive and quicker moving "boy" sperm a head start to fertilizating the egg first.
Sex and Orgasms:
When trying to conceive a boy, Shettles suggests that orgasms during sex are a good thing as the body produces substances after orgasm that makes the vaginal environment more alkaline, which favors the "boy" sperm.
The contractions which accompany an orgasm help move the sperm up and into the cervix, giving the "boy" sperm an extra chance at being available when your egg is available for fertilization.
Considerations for the Men:
Wear boxers. Wearing tight fitting underwear increases the heat levels around the testes and can, in turn, lower the sperm count. Wearing loose fitting underwear helps keep the testes cooler.
Have your partner drink a caffeinated beverage right before sex. This makes the Y-Sperm more active.
TO CONCEIVE A GIRL:
Frequency and Timing of Intercourse:
In order to increase the chances of having a girl, you should have sex everyday from the end of your period up to 2 1/2 to 3 days before ovulation. After this point, do not have unprotected sex until several days past ovulation.
Intercourse further away from ovulation favors the larger slower moving X (girl) sperm. The weaker Y (boy) sperm will die more quickly in the more acidic preovulatory vaginal / cervical secretions and by the time of ovulation there will be a much larger concentration of X (girl) sperm available to fertilize the egg.
Sexual Position:
If you are trying to conceive a girl, shallow penetration from your partner, preferably with the missionary position, will deposit the sperm closer to the entrance to the vagina. This area is more acidic than closer to the cervix and acidity will work against the weaker "boy" sperm leaving more "girl" sperm available to fertilize your egg.
Sex and Orgasms:
When trying to conceive a girl, don't orgasm during sex as the body produces substances after orgasm that makes the vaginal environment more alkaline, which favors the "boy" sperm.
The contractions which accompany an orgasm help move the sperm up and into the cervix, giving the "boy" sperm an extra chance at being available when your egg is available for fertilization.
Say No To Pistons 10-05-2005, 04:18 PM your annoying batman.
Supper 10-05-2005, 04:26 PM your annoying batman.
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a303/Sup1661/9f7d9b7c.jpg
Say No To Pistons 10-05-2005, 04:39 PM im supposed to be the one with boobs?
Supper 10-05-2005, 04:52 PM im supposed to be the one with boobs?
sure :dunno:
AmishBoy 10-05-2005, 05:41 PM Damn I'm good. I have two boys.
BATMAN 10-05-2005, 05:54 PM High red-meat diet = boys
High calcium diet = girls
AmishBoy 10-05-2005, 06:31 PM Hey it said if you put it deep and they get off big, it's a boy
rxtasy 10-06-2005, 07:32 AM well i had no problem getting either one. first 2 were girls, last 3 boys. and yes i'm a rabbit.
BATMAN 10-06-2005, 08:38 AM so ur first 2 times u had shallow penistration and didn't get her off?
Now when I see families with all girls it makes me wonder......... no orgasm for her and shallow penistration......
rxtasy 10-06-2005, 10:20 AM that's all possible. in the early stages of marriage and sexual activity, plus being the first time for both of us, missionary was the only style. over the years u gain experience and with that comes the use of other positions. with me being on the lower end of average, i've found it better for her to ride it out til she gets off, then finish off either missionary or doggy style, usually more the latter. and 69 will get her off before she rides, so i get her twice. if any of this is TMI, i apologize.
skrewloose78 10-06-2005, 09:18 PM High red-meat diet = boys
High calcium diet = girls
for the man or woman?
isnt the sperm the determining factor on the childs sex?
burnoutking999 10-07-2005, 09:38 AM Some how i ended up without a condom on last night. :dunce: the end of the sentence was a few days ago so i dont think i have anything to worry about but oh well. it was deep and she came ok. i guess junior is on his way possibly.
rxtasy 10-07-2005, 10:26 AM isnt the sperm the determining factor on the childs sex?
yes it is, but the topic is how and where to plant it if u want a chance in determining which sex the child is.
Some how i ended up without a condom on last night. :dunce: the end of the sentence was a few days ago so i dont think i have anything to worry about but oh well. it was deep and she came ok. i guess junior is on his way possibly.
somehow u ended up without a condom. u mean u don't know? forgot to get one, or just didn't care whether u used one or not? there is no "end of the sentence." if she got pregnant, it'll be more than a few days before it will show in a pregnancy test. "but oh well," sounds like u think it's no big deal. question is, r u ready to be a father and accept the responsibilities? if not, u have no business having sex without protection either by u or her. if i only had someone that could have given me some insite on what it actually takes to raise a child. oh the things i would change if i had it to do over. and i wont go into my situation here, just take my word for it. kids need direction. it's not like it was when i grew up. spankings didn't kill me, without discipline, kids will run wild. we even had paddlings in school.
burnoutking999 10-07-2005, 10:40 AM i have a two year old already. we both want another child and she was basically raping me last night so i went along for the ride. she was all like...
C="you dont need 'those' things, we should just stop using them"
J="hell no you been a bitch latley and even told me your moving out"
c=" well i really want to be pregnant...my sister is and we were going to be at the same time...please...etc.(5minutes worth)
j="im not comfortable with all that right now...are we having sex or is that not ok now."
c="just take off your clothes and lets decide then.."(she procedes to do all of the seductive things that men like)
j="no ive already decided for tonight"(i hadnt but it was working great for me so i let it go a little longer.)
c="just give him to me"
j=i dont know, i dont think your ready(touching her a little now)
blah blah blah
anyways it was the most interesting night in a while. she was trying extra hard and it was cool. i decided not to worry about it cause she just finished the period a few days ago and theres not much chance of it comming to pregnancy. even if it does it would be ok. Somehowthis morning i cant put my finger on it but i feel played somehow and i thought i was doing the playing. i dont usually play games and such but it was worth it last night. *goes to look up the catholic method*
rxtasy 10-07-2005, 12:34 PM oh, ok then, didn't know u were married. played? could be a ploy, another baby, more support. i know i've been played over the years. what is it about babys that women like so much?
BATMAN 10-07-2005, 01:22 PM women like babies since they can mold them in their own image more easily than their mates........
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