so... im starting to get to know other "people"(girls) after that monumental failure of a marriage i had. ive met 3 new girls this week and one wants to go out tonight. however ive not seen or met this person prior. we're going to a music club and i dont dance. i would but havent ever treid before. she seems cool but i dont have any illusions as of yet. so i am wondering... wtf do i say or do. the last new date i had was 8 years ago if not longer. i am meeting a new chick and HER freinds. this could potentailly suck!:40oz:

when she asks you to dance, just tell her your feet are only there to keep the ends of your legs from fraying. Or that your Indian name is Dances with Difficulty. Then get up and dance with her. If you've already admitted you suck, you have an out. If you don't dance at all, some girls will conclude you're a killjoy.

when she asks you to dance, just tell her your feet are only there to keep the ends of your legs from fraying. Or that your Indian name is Dances with Difficulty. Then get up and dance with her. If you've already admitted you suck, you have an out. If you don't dance at all, some girls will conclude you're a killjoy.

thats awesome! thanks hahahah

yeah it is...

and i know how you feel burnout. i havn't had any for about a year straight, then finally i've had "it" for the last 2 months. and now i've got about 3 girls wanting to go out NOW! shit!

i honestly don't know what to do. i guess i just pick the hottest one with the best personality..

anyways, back on topic.

im just trying to meet new people and do new thing and i lost my scaredness of talking to people but i havent quite got the follow through down yet! hahaha

only way you're going to become a better dancer is if you dance more. Alcohol helps to loosen up...

so... im starting to get to know other "people"(girls) after that monumental failure of a marriage i had. ive met 3 new girls this week and one wants to go out tonight. however ive not seen or met this person prior. we're going to a music club and i dont dance. i would but havent ever treid before. she seems cool but i dont have any illusions as of yet. so i am wondering... wtf do i say or do. the last new date i had was 8 years ago if not longer. i am meeting a new chick and HER freinds. this could potentailly suck!:40oz:

My 100% accurate drunk advice: Don't try so hard, grow some nuts, and hit that shit.

Peace out, nigga.

ok, all i gotta say is GOD DAMN!!! that was really fun. i met this girl and her freind both smoking hot and good peoples(more important). we drank, danced... oh yeah, i danced. no biggie. "and another ones gone and another ones gone, and another one bites the dusta". it was pretty good times. she already said she had fun too. this could be a good thing. we sahll see! relax, and be myself, plus one point. obsess and worry who, what

howd you meet her?

Ytmnd!

Just get drunk and dance....I am totally fucked up tonight an danced with just about every girl that was on the danc efloor...even thoug I won't remember shit in the AM and my gf is upstairs sleeping now

howd you meet her?

through a freind. she seems really cool. no phyco or scaryness like the last girl in my life as of yet. she a teacher. i could see thing going well but its a little early to tell. we'll see how it goes. couldnt be worse than before!

Well, the classic mistake you are already starting to make is thinking too much about it... You're already talking about things going somewhere, and you're gonna end up like that guy in "Swingers" who calls the girl 18 times the night he gets her number.

Don't know what I'm talking about? Go rent it.

Well, the classic mistake you are already starting to make is thinking too much about it... You're already talking about things going somewhere, and you're gonna end up like that guy in "Swingers" who calls the girl 18 times the night he gets her number.

Don't know what I'm talking about? Go rent it.


hahaha funny but no. im just saying i ha a good time. it was new and i was weirded out. no biggie though. i read and learn sensai! dont worry.

Well, the classic mistake you are already starting to make is thinking too much about it... You're already talking about things going somewhere, and you're gonna end up like that guy in "Swingers" who calls the girl 18 times the night he gets her number.

Don't know what I'm talking about? Go rent it.

OK, heres an update. she seems to be really into me so far and weve talked a bit. Im just kinda going with the flow but i really like what ive seen and heard so far. were definately going out agian maybe this weekend and she already mentioned meeting on her birthday on th 18th. shes not being clingy or weird and she seems very level headed and independent. i think she just likes me so far. we are both in that weird what do you say now phase but she would rather have a moment to think of the next thing to say than think of some excuse to go.

its nothing serious but theres potential to get better aquainted and who knows. Ive been calling when she wants me to or messaging back but not when else mostly cause im just busy. she strikes me as the type of girl who is searching hard for the right person and will be very fast in this to try to see if theres anything here or not and move on if not. im down for things if shes this way normally but its too soon to tell. shes gone through a few of the same things as i have as far as relationships go and its cool to talk to someone about this stuff. she tells me things as do i but i dont want to make her tink im so wrapped up in the situation that im damaged goods. im very much ready to move on after this is finalized.

some things are:
120-125, 5.5-5.8(not good with height)
blonde/brown
nice body and very nice in the way she carries herself
works out and is a healthy person
has i child, doesnt look it.
GREAT smile and sexy voice. reminds me of jennifer garner smile wise? kinda.

ok. so what are the suggestions. ive told my story a little, do i bring it up or only talk about it when she does. should i leave anything out or just be honest. i have not done this in a while so im not sure whats TMI. for intance also, she has tolde me to call her and i did. should i not call if she doesnt ask at least for a while. im really not a "stage 5 clinger" or the guy from the swingers movie, i have just been outta the game for a WHILE. she seems really cool so i thought id ask.

Just my $0.02

Wait till things get more serious before you divulge everything about your last disaster . . . er . . . relationship. Even then, don't talk about it unless for some reason you absolutely have to. You said you told her a little, thats fine I guess, but like I said, don't bring it up unless necessary.

You seem to be handling it quite well. Keep up the good work!

almost all girls have "dancing DNA" in them.

Play the music and they are game.

It's also their way of seeing how guys fuck in the bedroom.

So do ur best and dance like Jean Claude Van Dam........

YEAAAAHAHAHAHAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!*Head shaking and mouth wide open with martial arts stance*

ive only had sex with one girl but she liked it. i think i can do pretty good cause i pay attention and try. plus i dont have sex for sport or fun but rather because i care about the person. i am no longer gonna be able to fill the shoes that i will have one and only for life but i still have no interest in random hookups wih trash. ill leave that to you guys!:evillaugh

sometimes unfulfilling sex is good, even if it means that they body gets some and the soul is not fulfilled.

Ur getting close to male menopause YZF.

i could see how it would be fun and im not agianst it for others or anything... its a personal choice and i have not done different. not to say it wont happen but i am normally not that way. i was really ok with one for life. that may change but i dont know. if i get to know this other girl maybe in the future then its a definite attraction but im not the type to cheat or be the slightest involved and do another. i will wait for divorce to be over most likely before i feel morally comfortable. who knows.

come to think of it most males have unfulfilling sex since the body just has this urge to ejunkulate.

Every day there are billions of sperm trying to fertilize excrements in sewage, tissue paper and swimming along a latex barrier..........

...it was a stage I went through, I think alot of guys go through that.

What, violating the Word of God and fornicating in sin?

good to know that u've turned to the dark side for a few minutes.

Besides, practice makes perfect and knowing when and where ur rythum stick might want to vomit will make her wedding night something to remember when she points her toes at GOD's basement and tells him that she is on her way only to be held down by mere mortal YZF-R1.........

I've had to mature and discipline my mind in this area...

Yet, the rest of your mind remains immature and undisciplined.

Good job.

Where do old people go in Tallahassee? ;)

good for you

I'm not trying to boast about immorality here, I completely agree that sex without love is unfulfilling,

Classic statement of someone who can't get laid.

good to know that u've turned to the dark side for a few minutes.

Besides, practice makes perfect and knowing when and where ur rythum stick might want to vomit will make her wedding night something to remember when she points her toes and GOD's basement and tells him that she is on her way only to be held down by mere mortal YZF-R1.........

:roll: :roll: :roll:

Classic statement of someone who can't get laid.

i dont know if you were just trying to get him or talking for real but tht is not the case. if i want to at this moment i could get a girl tonight. however im just not into that type of thing. there are girls i know of that would like to be with me. ive been told and see it. they also know im a good guy and would not screw them over. i take great care to be the best person i can be and to many people it shows. if i ever have a problem i always have freinds and family that are there. this is because i dont run around burning those bridges. the same goes with sex/ relationships. i dont just have escapades and in the future if i have sex with someone it will be because i do see(at the time or later in time) a future or care about them very much.

:roll: :roll: :roll:

+1, hahaha

He doesn't get it........

i dont know if you were just trying to get him or talking for real but tht is not the case.


I'm tlaking to anyone who says that sex is unfulfilling unless you're in love with the person.

I'm tlaking to anyone who says that sex is unfulfilling unless you're in love with the person.

good point! not here, i just dont do it for that purpose alone.

but in the grave, they will cease to have anythingWE agree onm something!

So the spiritually dead is bound for eternal damnation?

Sounds like some bullshit made up by a bunch of guys that couldn't get "any" or perform in bed that wanted to spoil the fun for others.

If someone helps the world like Mother Theresa and yet fornicates like a rodent how does he compare to one that have elected not to help others in the "way of the lord" and doesn't fornicate.

I would rather bet that the first person is what GOD wants.

Heck, If Mary Magdeline gets the thumbs up from Jesus, any horn-dog can.

Sorry,

Not a drunk

Not a man whore

Not an adulterator (gotta be married first for that)

Not a faggot (can't imagine anything better than the female form to bang).



Didn't u offer to murder someone in this forum or the other?



Didn't adam fuck animals prior to GOD making Eve outta his rib (which basically is fucking urself)?

to the spiritually dead, all that matters is temporary physical satisfaction

there once was a masochist who liked nothing better than an ice cold shower on a winter morning. So he took a hot one instead.

Some people are into delayed gratification, spiritually dead or alive.

what's the matter, no rebuttal?