$100T2
09-09-2005, 07:58 AM
But this is from the 7 Club, and I'm eliminating his name here. I just want you guys to see what I have to deal with. The original PM is from June, I think.
Hey man, could you do me a favor and look at my situation real quick.
So i met this girl who's a year younger than me (im 18) a few weeks ago, through a mutual friend who said she wanted me or whatever . So we met, and hit it off right away. a few days later, shes my girlfriend blah blah ..
to the good part... shes got this really fucked up ex-boyfriend who thinks that swearing at her and calling her a bitch on the phone is gonna make her want him. about once a day, she answers it to "yell " at him. Now while she is calling him a fuckin crackhead and all that good stuff.. i sense that shes not done with that kid.
Tonight, i was with her and we ran into him and 2 of his friends. They were walking past me like they were gonna walk right by, and he tries to stick me in my stomach.. and the other 2 boneheads try to jump me. cop rolls by, no further confrontation.
so at this point, i wasn't that mad because i thought she'd appologize for bringing that shit on me, but no. she didn't say shit. I took it into my own hands to try and tell her to cut off all fuckin communication with that faggot, and she later tells me to stop running her life.
i'm going away to college in the end of august, and shes staying here to finish high school.
What do you think about all this Dr. Phil? thanks for reading and helpin me out
Now here's my response from the same day:
I think you should enjoy your summer fling as much as you can, don't sweat any of her drama, and as soon as you leave for college, lose her number. As far as advising her what to do... If she doesn't ask, don't offer your opinion.
OK, that's pretty straightforward, isn't it? Simple, to the point. Have a good time, fuck her like a dog, and be done with it.
But, let's fast forward to yesterday.
Hey man, me again
would you mind reading this really quickly and lettin me know what you think?
Let me give you a little background info first, it might prove neccessary. She went out with this kid for a year and 7 months, and completely let him go, i think. it took a while, and a lot of help from me but i did it.
Turns out, we've been going out for 3 months, absolutely crazy about eachother and in love... so i thought.
I'm away at college, and shes at home. I knew i was in love with the girl a few ago, but right now im not so sure.
She is verrryy attention needy. She hates being away from me, but still shows me that she cares very much about me. sends me packages, letters and notes all the time ect.. saying that shes in love with me , she loves me more than she ever thought possible, she didn't know what love was until she met me blah blah blah.. She added in that i should be thankful that she tells me this, because in her last relationship she never said it to the other guy.
She came to visit me, and we had a good time just us. I didn't take her out to party, because she told me she wanted to just spend time with me, and she was coming here to visit me and not the college. OK.. so we fucked like rabbits which ended up in her telling me that she feels used and that i dont love her, i love her body.
anyways, i accidently called her the wrong name last night, and she flipped out. she claims that if i was really in love, i wouldn't have said another name.BWAHAHAHAHAHAAHA That's some funny shit... - $100
So then, today after school, she told me that she said stuff she really didn't mean(she loved me) and then continued on, while crying, to tell me that she lied to me, and that she really did tell the other guy that she loved him all the time. Thats not all, she felt the need to keep going. She said she told him she loved him everytime she hung up the phone with him, or whenever they parted. She said she feels like when she looks back, she really didn't mean it. OUCH. I said i couldn't believe i've been lied to this entire time and hung up.
I hang up the phone furious, in shock of what just happened. I'm not crying or anything its just rediculous you know ? Anyways, she called me 3 times in my dorm room, i didn't answer. She left a message on my cell phone, saying that she didn't mean what she said, she did feel it when she wrote it, and said it but there were times when she felt it had to be squeezed out. So about an hour went by, and she called my phone and left a message saying maybe we should just sort through ourselves for the next 2 days.
I finally broke down and called her back because she left 2 more messages, and i wanted to find out how i could have possibly misconstrued what she said ..
What do you think man..
thanks a lot for reading it though
So, after I tell this guy back in June to not get involved, treat it as a summer fling, he doesn't listen to me, completely fucks up the whole situation, he wants my help again???
Hey man, could you do me a favor and look at my situation real quick.
So i met this girl who's a year younger than me (im 18) a few weeks ago, through a mutual friend who said she wanted me or whatever . So we met, and hit it off right away. a few days later, shes my girlfriend blah blah ..
to the good part... shes got this really fucked up ex-boyfriend who thinks that swearing at her and calling her a bitch on the phone is gonna make her want him. about once a day, she answers it to "yell " at him. Now while she is calling him a fuckin crackhead and all that good stuff.. i sense that shes not done with that kid.
Tonight, i was with her and we ran into him and 2 of his friends. They were walking past me like they were gonna walk right by, and he tries to stick me in my stomach.. and the other 2 boneheads try to jump me. cop rolls by, no further confrontation.
so at this point, i wasn't that mad because i thought she'd appologize for bringing that shit on me, but no. she didn't say shit. I took it into my own hands to try and tell her to cut off all fuckin communication with that faggot, and she later tells me to stop running her life.
i'm going away to college in the end of august, and shes staying here to finish high school.
What do you think about all this Dr. Phil? thanks for reading and helpin me out
Now here's my response from the same day:
I think you should enjoy your summer fling as much as you can, don't sweat any of her drama, and as soon as you leave for college, lose her number. As far as advising her what to do... If she doesn't ask, don't offer your opinion.
OK, that's pretty straightforward, isn't it? Simple, to the point. Have a good time, fuck her like a dog, and be done with it.
But, let's fast forward to yesterday.
Hey man, me again
would you mind reading this really quickly and lettin me know what you think?
Let me give you a little background info first, it might prove neccessary. She went out with this kid for a year and 7 months, and completely let him go, i think. it took a while, and a lot of help from me but i did it.
Turns out, we've been going out for 3 months, absolutely crazy about eachother and in love... so i thought.
I'm away at college, and shes at home. I knew i was in love with the girl a few ago, but right now im not so sure.
She is verrryy attention needy. She hates being away from me, but still shows me that she cares very much about me. sends me packages, letters and notes all the time ect.. saying that shes in love with me , she loves me more than she ever thought possible, she didn't know what love was until she met me blah blah blah.. She added in that i should be thankful that she tells me this, because in her last relationship she never said it to the other guy.
She came to visit me, and we had a good time just us. I didn't take her out to party, because she told me she wanted to just spend time with me, and she was coming here to visit me and not the college. OK.. so we fucked like rabbits which ended up in her telling me that she feels used and that i dont love her, i love her body.
anyways, i accidently called her the wrong name last night, and she flipped out. she claims that if i was really in love, i wouldn't have said another name.BWAHAHAHAHAHAAHA That's some funny shit... - $100
So then, today after school, she told me that she said stuff she really didn't mean(she loved me) and then continued on, while crying, to tell me that she lied to me, and that she really did tell the other guy that she loved him all the time. Thats not all, she felt the need to keep going. She said she told him she loved him everytime she hung up the phone with him, or whenever they parted. She said she feels like when she looks back, she really didn't mean it. OUCH. I said i couldn't believe i've been lied to this entire time and hung up.
I hang up the phone furious, in shock of what just happened. I'm not crying or anything its just rediculous you know ? Anyways, she called me 3 times in my dorm room, i didn't answer. She left a message on my cell phone, saying that she didn't mean what she said, she did feel it when she wrote it, and said it but there were times when she felt it had to be squeezed out. So about an hour went by, and she called my phone and left a message saying maybe we should just sort through ourselves for the next 2 days.
I finally broke down and called her back because she left 2 more messages, and i wanted to find out how i could have possibly misconstrued what she said ..
What do you think man..
thanks a lot for reading it though
So, after I tell this guy back in June to not get involved, treat it as a summer fling, he doesn't listen to me, completely fucks up the whole situation, he wants my help again???