i should start by saying i'm loaded, and just back from the bar. there are a lot of sarcastic ruthless motherfuckers on this board, so bring on the flames you pussies. "why is it that when i meet people(girls), they don't give a fuck about me?" just because i'm short? or ugly? i'm not captain annoying or anything, i just have such a cocksucking-mother-of-suez's-fucking-beard-hard time meeting and pinking up girls. no one ever tells me anything negative, they just don't care if i exist, i'll talk to my friends friends, make a little joke or whatever, and they laugh, then they jsut go abou their day. fuck. when i meet new people i always try to let them feel included, and show interest.

be honest, many people grow up and always have the same group of friends, but for any of you who have been the new guy, is this how its always gonna be? fuck me in the goat ass! i'm 5'6'' is it really that bad? geez!

I don't know what to tell you. I'm 6' tall and not bad to look at.

best advice man dont worry about it and go with the flow... things have a way of working themselves out


Edit: Im not 5'8" on my best day and dont have any problem... probably has something to do with cheerleading and most of the girls being <5'2" :D

dude if you are this worried please take a gun and kill yourself

i should start by saying i'm loaded, and just back from the bar. there are a lot of sarcastic ruthless motherfuckers on this board, so bring on the flames you pussies. "why is it that when i meet people(girls), they don't give a fuck about me?" just because i'm short? or ugly? i'm not captain annoying or anything, i just have such a cocksucking-mother-of-suez's-fucking-beard-hard time meeting and pinking up girls. no one ever tells me anything negative, they just don't care if i exist, i'll talk to my friends friends, make a little joke or whatever, and they laugh, then they jsut go abou their day. fuck. when i meet new people i always try to let them feel included, and show interest.

be honest, many people grow up and always have the same group of friends, but for any of you who have been the new guy, is this how its always gonna be? fuck me in the goat ass! i'm 5'6'' is it really that bad? geez!

First of all your are being kind of Vague and kinda hard to understand
what you are asking.
What do you mean, girls don't care if you exist???

- girls you already know don't care?
- girls you don't know, but would like to fuck don't care?
- friends show you no interest???

Ok son, let me put my internet father hat on..

first of all, women are like "bitches" literally.
They can sense weakness, fakeness and all that other bs.
its the "BITCH" in them.
So if your a insecure introvert the girls will know it.. and show you
no interest.

2nd.. Stop acting like a "bitch" and put down the apron and put on your
pants. one leg at a time..

Look, this is how its done. act/pretend to be the extrovert womanizer
pimp that you always wanted to be. Some bitches will see that
and will either like you or not. Talk/hit on as many bitches as you can.
Period. Dont' take rejection to the heart.. If one bitch rejects you
move on to the next.. Odds are eventually one chick gonna take the
bait and move on from there.

As far as your friends moving on with thier day.. No fucking kidding.
Do you really need a friend to hold your hand all day until you are happy??

How old are you?? Knuckle up and be a Man.

have a nice day..

I used to think that way, but then I grew up. The right girl will come along sometime. A friend of mine was a virgin until he was 30. He never had a girlfriend. Some of us thought he was hiding in the closet, but then he found a girl and got married last year. All I can say is the girls you meet in the bar when you/they are drunk are usually not the kind of girl you want in a relationship anyway.

never had a good relationship come from a bar/lounge/club

pick ups are a waste of time.
plus you gotta worry bout t3h h1v

but yeah... you're a dude. stop being so sensitive. of course your friends aren't going to care. guys generally don't.

i should start by saying i'm loaded, and just back from the bar. there are a lot of sarcastic ruthless motherfuckers on this board, so bring on the flames you pussies. "why is it that when i meet people(girls), they don't give a fuck about me?" just because i'm short? or ugly? i'm not captain annoying or anything, i just have such a cocksucking-mother-of-suez's-fucking-beard-hard time meeting and pinking up girls. no one ever tells me anything negative, they just don't care if i exist, i'll talk to my friends friends, make a little joke or whatever, and they laugh, then they jsut go abou their day. fuck. when i meet new people i always try to let them feel included, and show interest.

be honest, many people grow up and always have the same group of friends, but for any of you who have been the new guy, is this how its always gonna be? fuck me in the goat ass! i'm 5'6'' is it really that bad? geez!


If it looks desperate, acts desperate and talks desperate, chances are it's desperate.

Be honest, would you want to associate yourself with someone who gives off such vibes? Even if you're not outright asking them out on the first meet, people can still tell if you're trying a bit too hard, and that's usually what ends the deal prematurely for people.

Relax, take something to ease that anxiety of yours, and just be yourself. People will take interest in you when you're actually doing well on your own.

dude if you are this worried please take a gun and kill yourself

BOOM! HEADSHOT!

I got an idea for you..

1. Get some good chronic (canibus) KB preferabbly.
2. Get a clog free pipe/bong
3. Take 2-5 hits and hold it in until you turn blue.
4. Go out have fun and chill..

i should start by saying i'm loaded, and just back from the bar!
There is your mistake. Unless you at a Dive and are willing to take home the village Bicycle for a Ride, A bar is no way to meet girls.....real girls.

Oh wait, you could inherit a billion dollars and drive up in a Ferrari and you Height won't really matter......if that is type of "Girl" you are looking to bag.


My advice to you??? Go where normal people are and stay away from the bars.

so where are normal people then? i'm sorry i'm new to this whole "life" thing. i was born yesterday.

so where are normal people then? i'm sorry i'm new to this whole "life" thing. i was born yesterday.

Believe it or not

Grocery stores.
Laundry mat <-- less affluent and don't have washer/dryers good spot
Star bucks
Book stores.

but hell with all that bs.. Hard to start small talk with complete strangers
in a NONE club scene..

Go to the bar/club around your area..
and just say this to every girl you see..

" whats up, wow you are beautiful, whats your name, got a bf "

GUARANTEE YOU.. 1 out of 100 will take the bait.
buy a couple beers, and then couple of shots.

walla say hello to dirty sanchez..

thank me later

thanks for the advice. i don't have problems getting laid, i'm not desparate to get a gf. i just don't understand how to meet new girls. i just want to be able to meet new people, and have them show and interest in me, as i show in them, when i go out. maybe not everyone is so sinscere, and have to protect themselves by building big walls and facades. i'm not like that, maybe its my own openess that is my downfall.

for example, last night me and my brother were standing in line at this club, 5 min after we started standing there, these two girls lined up behind us, now both of them were way taller than me and i find this intimidating(sad, i know). the one was not only tall but was a complete knockout. magazine material stuff. so i have been on a bit of a self improvement bender lately, i decide that i'm going to tackle my fear, head on. i introduced myself, and started talking and joking with them. we waited in line for about an hour, and pretty much the whole time, i had them laughing. there were asking us questions, and it was a good time in general. when we got in the club, me and my bro walked up to the bar, and they followed us. i turned and told them i was gonna by them something to drink. they said great , but the bar was so busy, we would have waited all night. so i wanted to go around the other side because it looked a little less busy. so i told them i would come back and find them, they said ok cool. me and my bro left them and went about our night. they were having a good time, but they never wanted to follow us or anything. i'm always the guy who has to initiate, hold, and follow up. except for a few rare occasions. so tell me this. is that just how it goes? all you guys don't ever have chicks coming up to you and shit? and you never meet any one, and have them ask for your #? you guys might laugh, but i was raised like a mennonite. so this stuff might be really basic to some, but to me it is really like rocket science. thanks

Dude..

you have to remember, in a club/bar its basically
shark infested waters..

You have to be more assertive and kinda like "Claim" the hoes.

if I was you.. I would of just grabbed the girl you liked hand and
led her to the other side of the bar and proceed on your pimping.

But if your expecting "hoes" to be following you around like a lost puppy
because you were being nice. That isn't going to happen.
Unfortunately.. Nice guys do finish 2nd. Gotta be aggressive asssertive
and to the point. Hell you should of been straight up and whispered in her
ear " damn you look good, lets fuck " and see how they react.
If its al laughs then game is on.. If not.. Find another hoe...

You have to be demanding in a nice way.. like grabbing hand or waist
and be like, lets go over here..

but as far as walking away and hoping they follow isn't going to work..

goodluck

so tell me this. is that just how it goes?

Yes

all you guys don't ever have chicks coming up to you and shit? and you never meet any one, and have them ask for your #?

I do have girls come up to me and start convo's, and although they never asked for my number off the bat they have taken my phone and called their cell to get my number (and give me their's).

When I go to a bar/club I usually spend a good amount of time laughing at the guys around here as they try to work their game, only to have to girls come up to me to get away from them. And I'm 5'6, never hurt me.

What do you mean you were raised like a mennonite? were you home schooled and lived on the farm dressed in traditional clothes, what about all the mennonite hunnies then?

Don't worry about how many "chicks" you get...

It's all about QUALITY, QUANTITY doesn't mean shit, and well... bars/clubs isn't a place to find quality.

so what is the place for "quality", mr. zero?

If you're in bars/parties looking for cheap sex with drunken whores, don't expect them to choose the "short ugly guy" over top of the ones that sexually excite them. After all, they are whores, and that's what they're there for.

If you weren't born with it, it wasn't meant for it to be. I'm sure in the long run the thread starter will get what he was looking for, and what he's frustrated over now will make sense then.

Library?

College?

OH!, how about weddings? Find yourself a "virgin" and let the hilarity ensue.

But I think the best way to meet "quality" girls would be through friends.

First of all your are being kind of Vague and kinda hard to understand
what you are asking.
What do you mean, girls don't care if you exist???

- girls you already know don't care?
- girls you don't know, but would like to fuck don't care?
- friends show you no interest???

Ok son, let me put my internet father hat on..

first of all, women are like "bitches" literally.
They can sense weakness, fakeness and all that other bs.
its the "BITCH" in them.
So if your a insecure introvert the girls will know it.. and show you
no interest.

2nd.. Stop acting like a "bitch" and put down the apron and put on your
pants. one leg at a time..

Look, this is how its done. act/pretend to be the extrovert womanizer
pimp that you always wanted to be. Some bitches will see that
and will either like you or not. Talk/hit on as many bitches as you can.
Period. Dont' take rejection to the heart.. If one bitch rejects you
move on to the next.. Odds are eventually one chick gonna take the
bait and move on from there.

As far as your friends moving on with thier day.. No fucking kidding.
Do you really need a friend to hold your hand all day until you are happy??

How old are you?? Knuckle up and be a Man.

have a nice day..


+1
this man is correct!
It is all about attitude and confidence! god, lots of chicks like that regardless what you look like. You dont have that now so that means YOU GAIN IT BY MAKING MISTAKES! Only way to learn cuz there isnt a book out there, IMO. Dont be scared. Go to 10 bars a weekend and ask 10 different girls. write down their reactions if you have to. study before you ask someone if you have to. repeat. Just fucking try it. You will have a baby in 9 months in no time.

when you least expect it you will find someone

lol close to the truth hehe

college is far and away the best place to meet people, in terms of sheer numbers, but that doesn't always translate into a successful long term relationship

At least people at college arn't a bunch of drunken....

Ok, not ALL people at college are drunken whores. But at least you can meet people who have the same interests which increase the odds.

for every random girl i hook up with i get turned down by at least 50...

for every girl i have a fuckbuddy relationship there are about 25 one nighters...

for every girlfriend i hav......... dont remember its been more than 5 years


in order to succeed you must fail grasshopper.... be up front if a girl is into you youll know right away if shes not then youll know right away... this way you dont waste your time/emotions (ps havent bought a girl a drink in a year and a half)

Just remember..

when you do start getting your dick sucked
and finally able to piidb..

remember..

Bros before hoes..
Dont buy the cow, if the milk is free
Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.
do not believe the "i can't get pregnant" BS some bitches be spewing..

i should start by saying i'm loaded, and just back from the bar. there are a lot of sarcastic ruthless motherfuckers on this board, so bring on the flames you pussies. "why is it that when i meet people(girls), they don't give a fuck about me?" just because i'm short? or ugly? i'm not captain annoying or anything, i just have such a cocksucking-mother-of-suez's-fucking-beard-hard time meeting and pinking up girls. no one ever tells me anything negative, they just don't care if i exist, i'll talk to my friends friends, make a little joke or whatever, and they laugh, then they jsut go abou their day. fuck. when i meet new people i always try to let them feel included, and show interest.

be honest, many people grow up and always have the same group of friends, but for any of you who have been the new guy, is this how its always gonna be? fuck me in the goat ass! i'm 5'6'' is it really that bad? geez!

not getting a girl at a bar is probbaly the best thing thats ever happened to you....i would never get a girl at a bar...put down the alcohol, and try being a gentleman..

Mark

I'm 5'6" as well and women are no problem for me. It's all how you carry yourself.

I simply do not give a fuck about anything.
I am really bitter and tend to have a bad vibe. However, I am extremely aggressive. Throw an idea out there. You might get rejected, you might get accepted. I don't care though, cause for ANY guy you either get rejected or accepted no matter what your approach is. In my case I just "be myself". I'll take my loses and I WILL TAkE MY VICTORIES.

I'm 5'6" as well and women are no problem for me. It's all how you carry yourself.

I simply do not give a fuck about anything.
I am really bitter and tend to have a bad vibe. However, I am extremely aggressive. Throw an idea out there. You might get rejected, you might get accepted. I don't care though, cause for ANY guy you either get rejected or accepted no matter what your approach is. In my case I just "be myself". I'll take my loses and I WILL TAkE MY VICTORIES.
Girls are attracted to the a-hole attitude for some reason. I've tried it before and it worked.

for every random girl i hook up with i get turned down by at least 50...

for every girl i have a fuckbuddy relationship there are about 25 one nighters...

for every girlfriend i hav......... dont remember its been more than 5 years


in order to succeed you must fail grasshopper.... be up front if a girl is into you youll know right away if shes not then youll know right away... this way you dont waste your time/emotions (ps havent bought a girl a drink in a year and a half)

see this is what i was wondering, i am/was not willing to make that kind of effort, i have this i dea that i should pick up 1 for 1, or 1 for 2. but thats unrealistic i guess? yeah i was raised in private country schools, and we dressed in traditional clothing, no tv, no newspaper, no drinking, no fun, and above all, no touching girls!

You described 50% of college girls :D

I hope you guys feel better about making my A.D.D. worse. I have tried for 3 days now to read the problem in this thread and i still cant do it. So i dont know if its because my add or if he is talking about me now.

To the OP

girlsnbitchesmytime


I got an idea for you..

1. Get some good chronic (canibus) KB preferabbly.
2. Get a clog free pipe/bong
3. Take 2-5 hits and hold it in until you turn blue.
4. Go out have fun and chill..

And you fix you damn sig you dumb SOB. Its Im not racist I hate everyone equally.

Fucking dumbass board. Drunk+interweb=not funny to everyone else. I know from experience

Girls are attracted to the a-hole attitude for some reason. I've tried it before and it worked.

A-hole = Confident = Alpha male persona

All boils down to nature, man... lol, survival of the fittest :D

college is far and away the best place to meet people, in terms of sheer numbers, but that doesn't always translate into a successful long term relationship
:werd: x10

And you fix you damn sig you dumb SOB. Its Im not racist I hate everyone equally.
okay retard... its "I'm not a racist, I'm an equal opportunity hater."

:werd: x10


okay retard... its "I'm not a racist, I'm an equal opportunity hater."

Damn you

How busted are you? Post a pic.


see this is what i was wondering, i am/was not willing to make that kind of effort, i have this i dea that i should pick up 1 for 1, or 1 for 2. but thats unrealistic i guess? yeah i was raised in private country schools, and we dressed in traditional clothing, no tv, no newspaper, no drinking, no fun, and above all, no touching girls!

okay retard... its "I'm not a racist, I'm an equal opportunity hater."
Don't try to correct Slingo....He knows "all" Plus, He'll just insult you for trying to help

Besides He is a "Raciest"