Seriously. They expect us to understand when they refuse to do something, or expect us to do something their way, even when their excuses are fucking retarded and they know it but they still expect us to follow along. :screwyou:





Anyway, vent over. Anyone know what I'm talking about here?

Were you about to bunghole her?

Seriously. They expect us to understand when they refuse to do something, or expect us to do something their way, even when their excuses are fucking retarded and they know it but they still expect us to follow along. :screwyou:





Anyway, vent over. Anyone know what I'm talking about here?

You need to take the mind reading course, buddy. I can't afford the course right now, so we've been trying to communicate. But "It's okay," when something is wrong, and "Whatever," aren't really communicating. They're making me infer and assume. I hate assuming.

Were you about to bunghole her?
no. She wants me to drive 2 hours to come see her, but her parents are there right now too and even though we've been dating for damn near 2 years now she still wants me to sleep on the couch when her parents are around. I told her the last time that I wasn't going to sleep on the couch again. So now I'm trying to decide if I should drive up there this afternoon or drive up there tomorrow morning. I have to be up there either way tomorrow for a job interview.

no. She wants me to drive 2 hours to come see her, but her parents are there right now too and even though we've been dating for damn near 2 years now she still wants me to sleep on the couch when her parents are around. I told her the last time that I wasn't going to sleep on the couch again. So now I'm trying to decide if I should drive up there this afternoon or drive up there tomorrow morning. I have to be up there either way tomorrow for a job interview.

Go up, visit her. Sleep with her after everyone goes to sleep. Get up before everyone else.

ha! yeah, thats business as usual for women regarding keeping up appearances.
Just tell her you are sleeping in a bed tonight and youll be dreaming about her.
And if she fights about it, tell her you want to wake up fresh for the interview and no couch is good enough for a man.

Go up, visit her. Sleep with her after everyone goes to sleep. Get up before everyone else.

too much work for steady pussy, newb

too much work for steady pussy, newb

Not unless you want to maintain steady pussy.

ha! yeah, thats business as usual for women regarding keeping up appearances.
More like bullshit as usual.

I'm not going to drive up there to sleep on a couch, and its not about the pussy. Its about her being too insecure in the relationship to be able to even discuss it with her parents. She pulled a line on me a month or so ago about how she feeels she is more serious about the relationship because she wants to talk about getting married. So now whenever she starts pulling the "You need to sleep on the couch." bullshit I pull the "I thought you were the one that was more serious about this relationship."

:mad:

And don't even get me started on the whole getting married subject :soapbox::soapbox:

Not unless you want to maintain steady pussy.
Good point. Let examine the facts and help out Supper here.

Can we agree then that his g/f is bored and stuck with parents?

Can we agree then that his g/f is bored and stuck with parents?
bored, yes.

Stuck? Not really. Her family has the house in town and a cabin 40 miles away on one of the lakes. Her mother, for some reason unkown to me, wants to stay in town tonight even though its 20 miles the wrong way for the road she will be taking south back to Denver.

bored, yes.

Stuck? Not really. Her family has the house in town and a cabin 40 miles away on one of the lakes. Her mother, for some reason unkown to me, wants to stay in town tonight even though its 20 miles the wrong way for the road she will be taking south back to Denver.

Well, at least tonight, the girl is stuck with parents, right?

Well, at least tonight, the girl is stuck with parents, right?yep

And for all argument purposes, her parents are square, right?

And for all argument purposes, her parents are square, right?
thats an understatement.

I can't believe I'm gonna say this... but I guess I might as well just go up there. Its just one night, and its not like I get more then a couple hours of sleep on any given night anyway.

I'm going to be having a discussion with her about this crap though.

If she has a really close relationship with the folks, then you probably should go along with it. Best just to accept it and have her make it up to you later on.

whoaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. hold on.
one... dont listen to ark. only time he was close to a woman was when his maid bumped into him while sleeping.

two, hold up on any discussion without knowing some steps.....wait a sec.....

whoaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. hold on.
one... dont listen to ark. only time he was close to a woman was when his maid bumped into him while sleeping.

two, hold up on any discussion without knowing some steps.....wait a sec.....

Yeah, hold off on any discusion. She'll feel like you are attacking her, even though it's her parents that upset you.

I brought up to my GF how her mom made me feel and we pretty much broke up right there. It took so long to make things good again.

Discussions are attack sessions. You've been warned.

damn i think he left. good luck suppa.

I've said a little prayer.

Godspeed.

whoaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. hold on.
one... dont listen to ark. only time he was close to a woman was when his maid bumped into him while sleeping.

two, hold up on any discussion without knowing some steps.....wait a sec.....

1) Yeah, but have you seen my maid? :drooling:

2) Think about this from a more rational perspective. Sounds like he's pretty serious about this girl and could end up marrying her. If he does that, is it really in his best interests to piss off his future in-laws? I'd be willing to bet that they aren't altogether crazy about Supper to start but even if I'm wrong, and they absolutely love him, this would obviously cross the line. So much easier to suck it up until he's married, then her parents have no right to get involved in that sort of thing.

Always follow the more conservative parents' lead, when in their presence.

Always follow the more conservative parents' lead, when in their presence.

Exactly.

youll have to do better than just read his words, newblete.

two newbletes

I have practiced these words, and I tell you, they are true.

I'm not calling you two out on bad advice. But you two should have sensed an underlying issue with the couple.

I got a fix that'll turn Supper into a super husband. And he is going to call all the shots. Now where is the lad? Yeah, on his way to bury the problem even deeper. No worries.

What's this oh so simple fix?

Seriously. They expect us to understand when they refuse to do something, or expect us to do something their way, even when their excuses are fucking retarded and they know it but they still expect us to follow along. :screwyou:





Anyway, vent over. Anyone know what I'm talking about here?

All you need to do is ask yourself quickly, "Is this worth the battle?" If it is, then argue, if not, do it her way. Save yourself the grief.

What's this oh so simple fix?

I'm going to show three things that may resolve this, youll have to tell me which one and only one to choose.

fitst
http://scottcountyva.info/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/marriagelisthall.jpg

All you need to do is ask yourself quickly, "Is this worth the battle?" If it is, then argue, if not, do it her way. Save yourself the grief.

When the king of advise says to cave, it's not worth it.

I'm going to show three things that may resolve this, youll have to tell me which one and only one to choose.

fitst
http://scottcountyva.info/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/marriagelisthall.jpg

Marriage!?

second
http://www.theblogblog.net/wp-content/uploads/2007/09/01129344_400.jpg

Hotdog down a hallway...

Kids?

third
http://images.jupiterimages.com/common/detail/40/17/23181740.jpg

Kill her parents?

Dude.

I'm not good at charades.

just pick a door

Door two.

Door two.

a refreshing chose.

Nothing is worse than having a woman addicted to cock, nothing. Wait until they try and do a line of cock, that's when things get interesting.

http://www.theforumlounge.com/wow-her-move-t9328.html

Seriously. They expect us to understand when they refuse to do something, or expect us to do something their way, even when their excuses are fucking retarded and they know it but they still expect us to follow along. :screwyou:



DUDE!!!

You shouldn't blame ALL WOMEN just cuz you got a dud :P

Well, its a good thing I came up last night. Long story short; she has been jumping to conclusions and hearing what she wants to hear for the last two weeks when it comes to me talking about perspective jobs. She told her parents I had the job here in Casper and would be living with her for a few weeks till I found an apartment. Her parents got pretty mad about that.

So I set several minds straight about the long and short of whats happening in life right now.

I'd be willing to bet that they aren't altogether crazy about Supper to start but even if I'm wrong, and they absolutely love him, this would obviously cross the line.
Well, they don't adore me, but they don't hate me either. Her dad's oilfield, I'm oilfield (he's managment I'm just a grunt, but still) so we get along pretty good.

All you need to do is ask yourself quickly, "Is this worth the battle?" If it is, then argue, if not, do it her way. Save yourself the grief.
I realized I was also blowing things out of proportion, mainly because of the way she had been reacting to things I had been trying to explain all week. Turns out it was all for the best, her parents spent the night 40 miles away at their lake house and we spent the night in town :D :peace:

So things are resolved for the moment.

Thanks for allowing me to vent and for the advice :40oz::bigthumb:

When the king of advise says to cave, it's not worth it.

Sometimes you need to pick your battles. Let her win the stupid, irrelevant shit, then you can turn around and use female "logic" ( :rofl: ) to get your way on other, more important things.

"Sure honey, we can go see your Aunt tomorrow for a couple hours instead of me working on the car..."

"Honey, I'd like to buy this $3000 turbo kit... Hey, you got your way when we went to see your Aunt, now it's my turn to win one."

That is female logic right there.

Seriously, any time I need to buy something for the car, I always over price it by 50 to 75%, that way when it's the real price, she thinks we scored a deal. AND, she knows I do it, and I still get away with it. Yes, it's a bit manipulative, but as long as it isn't hurting anyone, there ya go.